http://www.susasns.org – massive with all sorts of forums
trueselves.com – for transpeople only, and Gen X’ers, at that.
Reddit: full of trans stuff, both good and bad.
pinknews.co.uk – lgbt oriented
Facebook – trans groups galore
transgriot.blogspot.com – awesome updates from a great (black) trans writer.
autostraddle.com – how to be gay hahahahaha
Trans Lifeline – 877-565-8860 – use it if you need it. Canada – 877-330-6366
feminitsting.com – riot goth grrl, remember?
That’s basically what I’m using now