As the title says, it’s time to talk about sex. Not specifically about the act; rather, this will be more about the effects of hrt on my sex drive. I don’t know how deep I’ll get into this as I have been having some computer problems and this is the third time trying to write this post.
So sex – basic function of most peoples lives – with the possible exception of asexual people, and sometimes even asexual people have sex. Of course, it was a basic function in my many relationships over the years. I don’t profess, nor have I ever, to be a master of sex. I kind of piddled along, feeling my way as I grew up. Masturbation was a constant – didn’t matter how much intercourse I was having at the time. When I wasn’t having sex with someone else, I was copious amounts of sexy time with myself. No surprise here. I’m sure there are a lot of people who will ride with me on this. Whether they are honest and open about it is another story.
Anyway, for me, at the beginning, hrt killed my sex drive completely. Dead. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. I’ve read differently for some trans women. their drive will actually increase. This is few and far between. I don’t think the SO minded the drop in my sex drive, either. I will have to ask and get back with you, lol! I just didn’t have the desire anymore. No sexual intercourse, no masturbation, no porn, no touching, no nothing.
Buuuuttt, I guess things are changing again as my body adjusts to the hormones, and they flow through me. I have found that I enjoy masturbation again, albeit every HUGE once in a while. I am not ready for intercourse, and I don’t think I will ever be again, in the sense that most people think, i.e. p.i.v. intercourse. I do think that, like most trans women, there is a rewiring of the brain, and the way orgasm is felt. No longer is there the need to (pardon my French) shoot my load all over the place. And when I cum (excuse my regular language), it is a dry shot, meaning nothing is coming(hahaha) out. Maybe some clear liquid, but that’s it. So, my baby batter may not be capable of making babies anymore, YAAY!!!!!
I’m going to wrap this post up here. Maybe I’ll get to part 2 in a bit. Maybe not. I’ve definitely got some ideas, but once again, I don”t know how comfortable I would be in putting it out for the world to digest. Thanks for reading, dear people of the page, and I will be back soon!