Alright dear readers of the page, this post will probably not be that long. I think that I may have made a mistake at work. I have a coworker who has been really nice to me since she started, which was recently. So, today we were shooting the shit with another coworker, and she asked if I was married. When I said yes, she was definitely surprised.
I think that caught her off guard because I was wearing my trans lifeline shirt and an “I’llGoWithYou” pin. I have been wearing more feminine clothing at work – principally because I feel more comfy in those clothes. Still, I am not out at work, so my style may be taken as more andro, at least I hope so!
Anyway, secretly, and between us, I thought she may have been part of the rainbow family, possibly gay. I have a pretty decent gaydar, so I sent her a friend request on FB. She finally accepted, which was cool of her since we don’t know each other well. I low-key stalked her page and thought I was right on in my thoughts buuuuuuuuutttttt —— now I don’t know.
You know how FB is, right? You can only see so much of a profile w/o being friends. So anyway, I looked through her page, and it appears that I may be wrong. She may not be part of the fam at all, and I may have just inadvertently outed myself at work. Damn, I’m am not sure how to feel right now. I know what I will do – nothing. I will continue to post all my crazy shit on FB. I will continue to be vocal about trans rights. I just don’t how I will handle the situation at work.
Dear readers of the page, what would you do?