This is going to be a quick post about my horribly deep and manly voice. I may have to resign myself to the fact that my voice will always be deep and manly. I bought these instructional videos by Kathe Perez. She is famous for working with trans women to feminize their voices. I am not a self starter, so this was always going to be a crap shoot. I paid the $160 for the videos and lessons anyway, but still haven’t made any progress. What I think I need is an actual therapist that I can do face to face work.

What I really need to do is buckle down and try these damn lessons.. I tried for about two weeks without any difference, so that put me off.

One of my good friend’s daughters recently told me that I am not a woman because I have a voice like a man. This hurt a little bit, but I realize that this kid is six years old, and I am grown. I shouldn’t lt it affect me negatively, but it’s hard sometimes. I wish estrogen had an effect on the voice like testosterone does. Trans men don’t have to worry about training their voices, for the most part, because with their second puberty, their voices drop drastically. Ahhh, the life of a trans woman…